I love me!!

I have never dieted before, and no matter how many times i say I would diet, I don't. because i know that i don't need to diet. I just need to eat healthier. I once weighed myself and found that my weight, in relation to my height, i just made it into the "healthy" range.

I understand that people need to diet
I understand that some people need too.

I understand that some people will never think they are skinny enough
I understand
I really do.

I understand that some people think they're fat.

What I don't get is my friends, who think they're fat.
When they're not!!
They are the proportioned. None of them needs to go on a diet.
Maybe eating healthier like me, but not on a full on diet where they want to lose 10 kgs.
This is not what i want my friends to be (I'm sorry, but i don't)
i want them to love the body they have
I want them to cherish their bodies
What they have, and what they don't have.
You can't enjoy life at the fullest, if you don't love yourself.
You can't expect people to love you, if you first don't love yourself.

I dont think I can hang out and eat with people who counts the calories in everything they eat.
it's annoying
and I won't be able to enjoy myself.
That's not how I want my night out to be- where I can't enjoy my steak because the person in front of me is only eating salad and counting the calories in every tomato that they put in their mouth.

self-confidence
to love oneself

that is what I want.
I have just began to love the way I am.
I wish that people around me will love the way they are too.
Embrace what your mama gave you~

Birthday wish...

HAPPY 18TH BIRTHDAY DEAR LIL BROTHER OF MINE~
Finally, he turns 18. I think he's been waiting for this day for a while. Almost every one of his friends, and even his girlfriend, is already 18 and has enjoyed the adult life. BUT HIM!!!

...well, not really. Since he already went drinking, clubbing and all. So i don't know what turning 18 will let him- maybe go to the casino and gamble with money away?

I've always said this since the beginning of highschool basically, and i still believe it now: Out of my whole family, i'm the odd one out. Seriously. I cannot be any bit more different than my brother and sister. It's just weird. We share the same blood, the same parents, the same up bringing, and yet- i turn out the be different from them.

At least my brother and sister have similar interest (mainly cars...) but nothing with me.Things my brother and I have in common in interest: 
- sports (but he likes basketball, while i'm a soccer kind of person)
- shows (friends, How I met Your mother, my wife and kids, scrubs)
Things my sister and I have in common (apart from the obvious):
- 
*a minute later*
I'm already stuck!
- shoes! (or rather, we're the same size and she borrows mine and i borrow hers)
things my sister and brother have in common in interest:
- cars
- music
- 
ok... well, though it's only two.... when we're all together, the most popular topic to discuss is music and cars, and so i'm always not contributing since i don't know anything about cars and music.
Things that I like, that they don't really like:
- music (i'm more c-pop while their playlist is fill with rnb and stuff)
- shows (apart from the comedy, i'm more of a chick-flick)
- movies (same with movies, i'm more of a chick-flick, while they're action oriented)
- books (i can't even remember the last time any of them picked up a book!)
- clothes (sis and i have totally different style of clothes. However, i'm fine with wearing her clothing, but she doesn't really like my style)
- there's also the liking of disney movies 
- and the ability to access my inner-child
They know nothing of my life... seriously!
they won't be able to even begin to enjoy it if they need to
Ok... i don't know how a blog that started with a birthday wish to my brother ended up with this. i should be get going to my work! >< teeheehee
OoPs~

well,happy birthday anyways, even though, its not like you'll see this post ^.~